In every VFW Post, small table, is set for one. It remains perpetually empty, yet it speaks volumes in its silence. This is the Missing Man Table, a sacred space of remembrance found in VFW Posts across the nation.
The small, solitary table is set with precision and purpose. Each element carries profound symbolism that honors those who never returned home from battle.
The white tablecloth represents the purity of our missing comrades' intentions to respond to their country's call. A single red rose reminds us of the families and loved ones who keep faith while awaiting answers. The red ribbon tied around the vase stands for our continued determination to account for our missing.
A slice of lemon rests on the plate, symbolizing the bitter fate of those captured and missing in foreign lands. A pinch of salt represents the countless tears shed by waiting families. The inverted glass signifies they cannot come home and celebrate tonight.
The empty chair—perhaps the most poignant element—stands ready but will remain forever vacant.
When you pass by this table, we ask for a moment of reverent silence. Remember that somewhere, a family still waits. Somewhere, a comrade's fate remains unknown. This table honors not just their absence, but their eternal presence in our hearts and memories.
They are not forgotten. Not today. Not ever. Remember!